Steve, when you wanna run two MySQL servers on the same machine, do
not use my.cnf !!! Try everything without it. Just change the options
ofr the services and try again !
Why can one not use my.cnf if I specify --defaults-file=<something other
than
my.cnf> for the second instance?
The second instance is obviously reading the proper defaults file, it
has
the correct datadir, port memory variables set, all of which are
being set in c:\myother.cnf and all of which show up in show variables
when it is running??
If I can't use my.cnf at all then I can't run the first instance
as a service which I need to..